Can I book a session for today or later tonight?
No. Same day sessions are not available. The more advance notice you give (1 week +) the higher likelihood of getting your preferred time and date.
I sent in my request an hour ago! Did you get it? Did you get it? Did you get it?
Dude. Calm the fuck down. Expect a response within 3-6 hours because I do sleep now and then. Also - check your spam.
I can’t pay the deposit due to shared account/ privacy/ blah blah blah. Can I book a session without paying a deposit? You can trust me!
Absolutely not COMPLETE STRANGER. There are 2 available methods: Bank Transfer and Pay/Pal - both using theladyhenry[at]protonmail.ch
Your deposit goes towards the dungeon rental and transportation to and from the space.
I’ve never seen a Pro before and I’m super nervous. Do you take virgins?
Totes! I genuinely enjoy being someone’s first because it can be a consequential experience. It’s a privilege to create a space where they can explore, be empowered and feel safe. I make it explicitly clear that there are no “goals” or things they have to prove. I’m not comparing them to other guests. There is no restriction on using Safe Words. Safe word use is encouraged and will 100% be respected.
That being said - if interested, we can work up to some fucked up cruel shit but there is no “level of authenticity” to get to. You do you.
Where is the dungeon? Is there parking? Accessible by transit?
My current dungeon of choice is Studio Ludus located in North York. Parking is available and it is approx 45 min from Union Station via public transit.
What are your Hard Limits?
Sex, sexual acts, scat, race play, blood play, non-consenting parties, animals, underage persons, self harm, permanent mutilation, pushing guests’ hard limits, intimate body worship, alcohol consumption during play, drug use during play, brats, meat products / condiments, vomit, Adam Sandler movies
What are the best times to book a session for?
Busiest Times: Monday - Thursday / 6pm - 10pm
Higher Availability: Sat - Sun / 5am - 10am & 10pm - 12am
The value of tribute
I take pride in what I do, I love it and I can’t see myself doing anything else. I don’t have 40 hours of sessions a week and like any freelancer, there are busy times, slow times and sloooow times. But no matter what there’s always time spent, expenses and physical, mental and emotional labour.. Below is a general layout of why the Tribute amount is what it is. I hope it provides context and a better understanding of a freelancer’s life.
For example, included in a $300 Tribute is the following:
Hundreds of dollars spent per month on online ads and promotion
Time spent looking at ad statistics and traffic and then refining or adjusting continuously
Time spent organizing bookings, answering emails, Twitter DMs, Instagram DMs
Regularly updating my website with new graphics, info and studying analytics to increase usability, SEO and conversion
Daily social media activity on multiple platforms to build interest, enhance my reputation and attract awesome guests
Photo shoots and photo editing
Financial investment in a multitude of toys, costumes and accessories
The financial and time expense of transit to and from the dungeon (over 1 hour each way)
Dungeon rental cost
Preparation of the session flow, tools needed, appropriate outfit, and skill enhancement if needed
Hair, makeup, body prep such as shaving etc
Professional manicures and pedicures
Set up of dungeon space prior to session
Clean up of dungeon space post session
Networking expenses (conventions, munches, play parties etc)
Education (classes, workshops etc)
Household purchases (humidifier, toiletries etc)
Gifts for friends’ birthdays and celebrations
Exercise items (running shoes etc)
I charge what I charge because I want to do this for the rest of my life. And to do that, it requires consistent work, organization, research, creativity, patience, planning and drive. I hope you view the Tribute not as an arbitrary price but as a reflection of my commitment and of all the moving parts behind the scenes used to make a little magic. Thank you for reading <3
5+ day Advance Booking = refundable Deposit
Sessions booked a minimum of 5 days in advance qualify for a 100% Refundable Deposit if cancelled a minimum of 3 days prior to session
Ex. Confirmed session date is Wednesday, June 5 / Deposit Refund deadline is Sunday, June 2
Suitable For Guests With:
The need for deposit flexibility in case of cancellation
More complex scenes and preparation needs
Preference of session to be during peak times
Out of town guests
1-4 day short notice Booking = non refundable Deposit
Please be advised that I rent space at a dungeon which is also frequented by other professionals. Last minute requests have a higher likelihood of not being accommodated due to previous bookings by 3rd party renters.
A non-refundable deposit is required to hold session and book the space if available.
The deposit is used to rent the facilities and is a non-refundable expense for me.
1 hour / $300
1.5 hours / $400
2 hours / $500
2.5 hours / $600
3 hours / $700
3.5 hours / $800
4 hours / $900
4.5 hours / $1000
5 hours / $1100
The dates/ times provided - based on your preferences - will be the soonest available dates/times unless otherwise requested..
Interested in an interview, appearance, photoshoot etc? Send us a message via theladyhenry[at]protonmail.ch
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